Words of Wisdom of the Day

If you know of something little in your life that makes you happy.. use it. My mom loves colored glasses so in our house every glass, mug, etc is colored because it makes her happy. My socks of many different colors make me happy so I try to wear colored socks. Whatever makes you happy, incorporate that into your life. If you don't know those things in your life that make you happy, find them. Look for everything and everything in life that makes you smile or have a pleasant thought and use them! Life sucks but finding those things that make it better is sometimes what you gotta do to make it through a suckish day.

Will you Let me?

Will you let me love you

Will you let me in

Will you let me hold you

Will you let me care

All these things I want

You mean so much to me

It’s because I love you

You have seem to let me in

You let me in already

Prepared your heart for me

Will I let you..

Prepare my heart for love?

I know you love me so

And you will trust me

But can I trust you

To know who I am?

My mind is a scary place

A place I like to hide

Somewhere few have gone

And held me in their arms after.

You seem so perfect

You care about me more,

More than I could ever know

I’m letting you in now..

Please come to me now.

Love Languages

So there's this book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman and at SpringHill every summer I have heard this book title. Of course, I don't own it nor have I read it but my brother and his girlfriend are going to be reading it together so I'm going to read it after my brother finishes it. But I think this book is just really unique and somewhat amazing. The five love languages Chapman have are: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. Basically this book is about how you express your love and how you like to receive love. I think its a really good book to read if you're in a long-term, committed relationship. I know before I get married I'm going to have my fiance (whoever that may be) read this book and discuss it with me. I understand a good way to know if someone is compatible with you is if you receive and give love in similar ways.
I'm with my cousins right now in Frankenmuth so I can't really explain everything I would like to but I'll send you to this website so you can learn more about this. I wish I had more time to tell you about all of this but I do not right now.
Iris
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And here's the website for you
http://www.5lovelanguages.com/learn-the-languages/the-five-love-languages/

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Word of Wisdom of the Day

Need some love? Pet your dog. A dog will always love you no matter what. Cats? not so much, they only use you when they want you. Dogs love you no matter what though.

The Boy is Sick

So instead of going out to a Super Bowl Party today I got to be at my boy's house taking care of him because somehow within the few hours we were apart three people in his house contracted the stomach flu. Yea, not a pleasant place but just being with him makes me so happy. He may be sleeping in his bed behind me but for some reason I cannot think of a place I would rather be. I'm exhausted to a point where I'm about to fall over into a coma but I'm here to take care of him. He tells me I'm the first person to really make him feel special and to truly care about him. This makes me so happy because that means him and I will have a very strong bond but that also frightens me to a huge extent. He's never had another experience like I'm giving him so how can he tell if I really am the right person for him. I have truly never felt in such a right place as I do in this relationship but I also don't want to let him get away from me. He somehow out of every other guy in my life has made a home in my heart. I just never want this to end. I don't even want to think about going away to school next year because he's going to be here and from these past six months I know how hard a long distance relationship is. This is just such a weird thing for someone like me who has had so many different guys chasing after her and being able to control all of them with one look. This is truly the first guy I can look at and think that I would be happy being with him forever. I know that he's always going to make me happy, I've never had such confidence in a relationship before. He is a guy who has a rough side of listening to metal music but also so sincere about everything and so heart-felt that he writes poetry. He's every girls dream and somehow I beat all of them to him. It truly wasn't until a few minutes ago looking at him sleep that I have realized I truly have fallen for this guy. I have been in love before but never like this. Most of the time I owned the guys heart, a guy, for the very first time, owns my heart and it scares me to death that he could break it so easily. I now know what all consuming love is and how it truly can change a person from the inside out.
So Josh... I love you with all of who I am and I would truly be lost without you.
Also, feel better!!!